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Admin
March 16th, 2005, 14:50
AS A TRUCKER, BEING AWAY FROM HOME MOST AT THE TIME.
HOW DOES YOUR FAMILY HANDLE THIS SITUATION, WIFE, KIDS, GIRLFRIEND ETC.
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Hillbilly
April 14th, 2005, 15:11
After almost 23yrs, my wife is apt to comment, after 4-5 days at home, "Isn't it time for you to go to work, or something?". It definitly takes a special kind of lady, to tolerate her spouse being gone most of the time.
What worked for us, was I encouraged her to be as independent as possible. That does tend to make things a little rocky on extended stays at home. But, she tends to handle the crisis times better when I'm not there, except at the other end of the phone.
Big_Dave
April 14th, 2005, 21:08
I call home just about every night at 8:30 pm, unless I've had a long hard day and am sleeping.
We talk of problems that arise and what to do about them.
How come my pickup or lawn mower never breaks when I'm home? :wtf: :yikes: :rofl:
Hillbilly
April 14th, 2005, 23:05
Dave, The reason they never tear up when your home, is because the kids don't need to borrow them until you leave!
ATCO
April 14th, 2005, 23:06
you would prefer them to break while at home? hmmm, I could think of better things to do while home... yeah ok, I know your the one mechanically inclined, and you can't be there to fix it... I gotcha...
Rain
April 23rd, 2005, 10:32
As a truckers wife.... being home.
I remember when he first started trucking, I thought there is NO WAY I'm going to survive being along taking care of everything. :yikes: I cried every time he left. I just couldn't believe he could leave me here alone.
We have had our ups and downs through this trucking life. But in the end I wouldn't have it any other way.
I enjoy being able to ride with him at times. That helps to let me know what he does on the road. (for the most part) :)
I enjoy his time home and now I enjoy it when he goes. Then it is MY TIME. :cool:
I have learned to do lots on my own time, you have to do it yourself or wait for him to come home, well somethings can't wait!
I cherish the time with him when he is home. :lover:
So all in all..... 'I'm a survivor' :cheers:
my girlfriend likea the idea of going cross country in a truck and being married to a trucker
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