What would you do?

[beanie baby]

First off, my kids hardly spend any time with their father. They may be see him once every 3 months, their choice, because they have him figured out already. My youngest daughter (15) left tonight with her dad to go hunting in the morning.

I get this text message from her...

Her: Mom, my dad is a man whore..
Me: Why?
Her: He has like 5 girlfriends
Me: He's probably lieing like usual.
Her: LOL yeah, oh and he says Gale (the g/f he's living with) is bi-sexual.
Me: Probably another lie. Why on earth is he telling you all this crap?
Her: I don't know, cause he's a loser.
Me: Sick bastard is more like it.

My ex is an extreme habitual liar. The girls know this too. What I don't understand is he hardly spends time with them as it is. Couldn't he find other things to talk to her about? I haven't decided if I should say something to him or just talk to my daughter about it. I know if I say something to him an argument is going to break out and then he'll yell at her for saying something to me. I have been divorced for almost 7 years and the guy hasn't changed one bit. :wacko:

What would you do?

[The_Governor]

Sounds to me like he's a couple of fries shy of a Happy Meal.I don't think its appropriate to be having conversations with a 15 year old girl about the sexual orientation of one of his "girlfriends".

Whats next?...............vivid details of his sexual escapades.

If the girls are aware of his "habitual lying"..............hopefully they will take it at face value and let it go in one ear and out the other.

[Randg1]

Are you really sure you want them alone with this sick wacko??? I'd have a serious talk with the girls about the safety of the situation. Sorry to say this but I see a rape in the future. He's just setting the stage and working up his courage.. :angry:

[McGee]

Are you really sure you want them alone with this sick wacko??? I'd have a serious talk with the girls about the safety of the situation. Sorry to say this but I see a rape in the future. He's just setting the stage and working up his courage.. :angry:


:yikes: :yikes: :yikes: ....I agree....OMG!!...if possible I would not allow the man to be around my underage children...and teach my legal age to get away.... :chase: :chase: ....I would also confront him...and make a report to the cops for informational purpose only...he hasn't committed a crime ...YET...why wait for him to damage your kid(s)...

[Randg1]

Are you really sure you want them alone with this sick wacko??? I'd have a serious talk with the girls about the safety of the situation. Sorry to say this but I see a rape in the future. He's just setting the stage and working up his courage.. :angry:


:yikes: :yikes: :yikes: ....I agree....OMG!!...if possible I would not allow the man to be around my underage children...and teach my legal age to get away.... :chase: :chase: ....I would also confront him...and make a report to the cops for informational purpose only...he hasn't committed a crime ...YET...why wait for him to damage your kid(s)...
:harhar: Old cops sure think alike don't we.. :cheers:

[McGee]

:wow: ...Yep...add a little liquid courage...and ya have a sexual assault....if he is having such a inappropriate conversation with his 15 yoa daughter...and he's such a loser...he most likely has it in his mind already that she wants him...and already has fantasies.... :angry: :angry:

[Coalregion]

Repeatedly talk about Lorena Bobbit in his presence to get your point across. Tell him if you have so much as an inkling that something is going on, you'll cut them off in his sleep and stick them so far up his azz that he'll choke on them. ;)

[EagleAce]

well-said, coalregion!!

I wouldn't allow that sick bastard near them without supervision!! I'd see that wacko in jail! :angry:

[LSMR]

Sounds like you already have the best defense possible beanie-you & your daughter have a good relationship & talk.

Talk to her about the problem.

[beanie baby]

Thankfully, my girls do not spend a whole lot of time with him alone anyway. I'm pretty sure my girls already have him figured out.

Yes my youngest and I do have a close relationship, which is nice and she still is accepting of the parenting aspect of that relationship also. ;)

To save the kids from having to listen to him be a jerk if I say something to him, I am just going to avoid letting them spend anytime alone with him, not that that happens all to often anyway.

Thank you all for your input. I think the guys brain is really fried and I am very thankful I got out when I did.